I hate him.. I really do
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wonderous аѕkеԁ:
wе һаνе bееח dating fοr six months аחԁ wе became soulmates, now һе һаԁ tο leave tο һіѕ country fοr one year tο work аחԁ һе′ll bе back next year
һе wаחtѕ tο marry mе аחԁ gave mе a ring bυt I һаtе һіm ѕο much fοr leaving mе, tһе wierd thing іѕ tһаt һе һаԁ tο leave regardless οf іf һе wanted οr חοt
I still feel Ɩіkе I һаtе һіm fοr leaving mе/////// іѕ tһіѕ normal?
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The question is: Did he really HAVE to leave? If he did, then you need to get over yourself. He had no choice.
If he left you willingly, then you have reason to be upset, but to hate him? That is pretty deep. If you were meant to be together you will be. Just roll with the flow and chill.
yes…i felt betrayed, but don’t let it ruin you’re relationship…just focus on how glad you are that he’s back and look foward from now…dont hold grudges … they are never good for you
hope i helped
sounds to me like your relationship was too intense. depending on where his country is, and what the religious differences are, you might need that year apart to settle down to reality. Don’t marry him before he leaves, wait until he comes back.
You need some help…you’ve stated all of the reasons why you should love this person, yet you say you hate him… It isn’t ‘his’ problem…it’s yours… It sounds like you were raised thinking you should have ‘everything…on demand’…in other words…you’re spoiled and a brat… Find yourself a professional psychologist FAST…and get your problems solved BEFORE your friend gets back…or, you won’t have him for long… Please…grow up…
No, you are selfish.
He had to leave.
A VISA is funny that way.
Grow up and give the guy a break. He had no choice.
“You are soul mates but you hate him.”
That shows your maturity.
Stop thinking about just “YOU”.
if he really has to leave then y would u hate him, he said he’d b back next yr…and if he tries to stay in contact with u when he’s gone, that means he’s tru to u and not with someone else….if he really didnt have to leave (and he pretended just so he can b with someone else) then yes, id hate him and never talk to him again if i were u…but the real test is, do u trust him enough to know that he wouldnt hurt u or are u too insecure and dont trust him….but if u two were soulmates you should trust him….
its ur choice
Yeah this is normal, you just hate him for no apparent reason. this happens a lot.
Don’t do stupid things when he’s going.
Anyway, why don’t you tag along with him anyway?
You sound so adolescent as to be incapable of an adult relationship.
Yes its normal…if you are in love. He should thank his lucky stars!
You’re just upset (deeply though) because he has to leave you. But look how nice he’s being with you. Cut him some slack. This can’t be very easy for him, you know.