Dating Soulmates

My boyfriend of 14 months has a very close relationship with his ex wife. They share two teenage boys and talk very frequently. This all seems very normal until you throw in a few factors. My ex has told me that his ex is still in love with him and believes that they are soulmates and will eventually end up back together. He has informed me that he has been friends with her for over 20 years and has no intentions of ever stopping that friendship. He won’t talk to her on the phone when I am around because he says he doesn’t want me to see how he is with her. When we had been dating 2 months, they had sex but he insists their relationship is purely platonic now. When she needs help, he sees nothing wrong with helping her – whether it be physical or financial. I am not allowed to go to the boys’ functions because she is not yet comfortable with seeing me with him. He leaves me out of everything that involves her. Please give me some feedback and let me know what you think I should do.
We have discussed this situation extensively. He thinks that I am insecure and have it in my power to just trust him. It is so hard for me to do after being lied to on numerous occasions about her throughout the relationship. They are mostly lies of omission – him not wanting me to know when he’s seen her etc. I love this man. We have talked about a future together. When we are together there are still fireworks after 14 months. Everything else about our relationship is normal and good. We are amazing friends and everyone who sees us together comments on how they can tell how much we are in love. I have been able to overlook a lot of what has happened but if I want to make it permanent with this man, I don’t think I can put up with her being so entangled in his life. I have never even met this woman although there have been many opportunities. He feels that if she doesn’t want to meet me – she shouldn’t have to. He coddles and placates her entirely too much and I’m at my wits end

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Ive been seeing a girl for 3 months who i used to know to talk to about 11 years ago but we lost contact back then and she moved away. She refound me on an internet dating site just over 3 months ago and weve been together since then but it has always been difficult! I live in Kent and she lives in Somerset and has a council house which she wants to swap to move back to kent but cant find anything. she has a son of 8, her ex lives up here which is one of the reasons she wanted to move back so her son could see him more. she isnt working at the mo but with my help shes managed to get a car. shes always been treated like crap by men and since shes been with me shes been treated like a princess and although she says she loves the way i am to her she says the spark has gone so i feel that she has become a little bored with me as she thinks im an easy touch. she knows i absolubtely adore her but she says its not right for her. I believe were soulmates . Please help anyone x x x

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i had a stroke over 2 years ago and my wife of 10 years left me over it. it was the worst thing that ever happened to me. i had to learn how to walk again but still cant really use one arm. i thought we were soulmates but now im afraid i’ll always be alone. im very smart, goodlooking and romantic but women dont want me now, even though they say im handsome and charming. it has changed my life for both the better and worse…worse because now im disabled…good because i have a deeper appreciation for life now. i have tried nearly every dating site online but all in vain. im very much the ladies man but noone is interested. i have been alone now over 2 years and i dont know how much more i can take.
i even tried mail-order brides but got burned by several women…all they really wanted was my money. if you looked at me you wouldnt know im disabled until i walk. im tired of wasting money on dating sites i need a women to love

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Just Me asked:

Okay, kind of a long story..

My boyfriend and his ex dated for almost 5 years, but they stayed together for more of a convenience thing than actually liking eachother. He cheated on her with me for two months and then he left her. We started dating and moved in together a month later. We both truly beleive that we are soulmates, we are perfect for eachother and everyone we know thinks so. We have been living together now for about a year, and I have had absolutely no reason to think he is cheating on me. he doesnt do anything out of the ordinary and our relationship is perfect. but for some reason every now and then i get these thoughts of how do i know he wont do that to me if things start to not be so great between us? i love him very much and i guess i am just afraid of losing him. this is the man i want to marry. do you think i am just worrying to much?

or do you think a man that cheats once will most likely do it again?
thanks for your help..

and if he does cheat i know it will not be with her…

i am younger than her and in shape and pretty

she is older than him, unfortunate looking, and VERY overweight

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im in 7th going on 8th grade so its a little different for us than for people in their 20s, but im just curious on what even the older and more experienced people have learned…
well i have learned:
=dont say you like them if you dont know if they like you and you like, JUST met them or have JUST started being friends with your crush…guys act weird no matter what after that…but depends.
=DONT EVER CHANGE FOR A GUY EVER.
=and you cant ever change a guy. only A FEW FEW FEW times did this ever happen in the world, i think.
=there are soulmates, but dont try to find them. its WAY to damn hard.
=its better to date a best friend kind of person, that knows you and everything, than a hot guy you dont know as much.
=of course, communication is the key.
any others?

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