Posted: under Singles & Dating.
Tags: Dating Advice, Ex Girlfriend, Feelings, Friday Night, Friends, Perfect Romance, Romance Movie
Matt V asked:
Me and this girl dated for two years, and she recently broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. She still wants to be friends, but I still want to date her. She agreed to come watch a movie with me friday night and I need to know the perfect romance movie to choose. Please Help!
dating advice
Jun 26 2009
Posted: under Singles & Dating.
Tags: Bliss, Dating Service, Emotions, Feelings, Love, Moma, Phone Calls, Soulmates, Surprise, Texts
wondagurl23 asked:
I’ve been dating a guy for 3 months now. The 1st month was bliss! In our 2nd month (when we’d already confessed our love for one another, me being the 1st to say ‘I love you’) my ex pops back into my life. My ex & I were past soulmates until he confessed that he was still in love with his ex- I left him. Now that he’s back-saying he has no feelings for his ex (also his baby moma)-my emotions are all over the place. My boyfriend questions if I’m still in love with my ex, but I deny it. I recently told my ex that I have a boyfriend- now he’s distant. He wont even answer my phone calls or respond to my texts. I texted him asking if he was seeing someone. To my surprise, he replied….saying he was seeing someone. How is that possible when he was just trying to get with me 2 weeks ago? Why do i even care so much? What should I do? Stay with my boyfriend? Go to my ex? Forget about him?
dating service
Dec 24 2008
Posted: under Friends.
Tags: Best Of Friends, Feelings, Going To The Movies, Group Outings, Jewish Dating, Kissing, Nothing But Sex, Relationship, Rude Joke, Soulmates, Unwritten Rule, Vagina

i h8 betches! asked:
my friend dated this guy 4 a year and in their relationship, there was nothing but sex. they never hanged out, like going to the movies or dinner. but he always went out in group-outings that included me. we grew to have strong feelings 4 each other. well…. i had feelings 4 him the start and he said he wanted to talk to me from the beginning, but he knew my friend since grade school and at that time she wanted him, too. he broke up with her 4 his reasons and asked me out. i accepted. i keep hearing about some unwritten rule about not dating your friend’s ex, but if they are not going out anymore then why can’t i go out with him. we don’t know if we were suppose to be soulmates from the start or something like that. i can see that it bothers her. and he told me some rude joke that she said, “everytime i kissed him, i’m kissing her vagina ” But in return, she acts like we are the best of friends.im going with him now and the relationship great, but she dislikes us being 2gether.
jewish dating
Dec 23 2008
Posted: under Singles & Dating.
Tags: Dating, Emotions, Falling In Love, Feelings, Friendship, Heart, Just Friends, Long Distance, Soulmates
cutesy asked:
been dating with a guy who just broke up with her long distance ex gf. we got along just fine. perfectly happy -but intimate. i know its too soon, but we both feel like we’re soulmates. but we both talked that we weren’t ready for a commitment yet. all these feelings we both have for each other, how can i stay “just friends” with him? with no emotions attached? i feel almost impposible. so i told him, we could never be friends for now. i miss him so badly. what should i do? i can’t loose a very good friendship. besides, he’s a great catch!!! i feel so impatient.. how do i deal with this… my heart is broken
dating friends
Dec 20 2008
Posted: under Singles & Dating.
Tags: Collie, Crap, Dating, E Mail, Feelings, Holly, Intelligent Man, Job, Lonely, Lot, Love, Marriage, Melon Collie, Persistence, Relationship, Sad, Soulmates

Melon Collie, Holly & Thanks asked:
I will try to make this as short as I possibly can.
I recently found out that my ex-bf whom I was very close to died in an accident. I am sad for his loss but also feel extremely guilty for the way I treated him sometimes and for pushing him away when all he wanted to do was be a friend. Here’s the story:
We dated 4 years ago for about 8 months. We were like soulmates. Every aspect of our relationship was perfect, sex, mental, connection. We loved the same things. He was such an amazing intelligent man who I loved so dearly. But I was very immature at the time (he was 7 years older than me) and was very inconsiderate of his feelings and thought he was too soft about somethings. I thought he was weak about certain issues that he had. Despite those feelings I had our relationship continued. We then deployed (we were both in the military) a few months into our relationship and I started falling for another guy because I was selfish, immature, and lonely. Long story short, I pushed my bf away for good and started to date the 2nd guy. My 1st bf was so persistent.(I hate persistence, it just drives me away more) He would come to my job, call my job all the time, e mail me all crazy, and there was a time I had to go to his job and he wouldn’t leave me alone and I was so mean to him I just kept telling him to back off and he wouldn’t. Finally our tour ended and we were back in the US. I was still dating the 2nd guy (mind you the 2nd guy was an asxhole and treated me like crap) and the 1st bf still wouldn’t leave me alone, he would call me, e mail me, even come find me at places. He was still very much in love with me and all I wanted was for him to leave me alone. I continued to push him away until finally it was his time to get out of the military. He moved to another state. My relationship with the 2nd guy was/is a very unhealthy one. We are married and have 1 child together. Or marriage was a mistake because we did it for the wrong reasons. We basically can’t stand each other and don’t want to be together. And even after 1st bf left, he still came here to our military post to handle some issues. He tried to see me about 4 times and only 3 did I see him. I was so distant, short and uneasy each time because I felt so uncomfortable w/ him knowing he was in love with me and I didn’t feel the same way, and because I was afraid of my 2nd bf finding out I was with him. I still pushed him away and told him he needed to get over me. Well finally he left me alone. We still texted and e mailed each other. But I never put forth the effort to call him and just be friends with him. I never got to tell him how I felt. Because after some time I stated to miss him and wanted to be with him again someday and I really thought that we could be together again. I never got to tell him that I was so sorry for pushing him away when I know he just wanted to help me and care for me. And just a few days ago I received news that he passed away. I regret so much not trying to reach out to him. I had so much to tell him and now I will never get the chance. I know I hurt him so much and I never got to show him how sorry I was, now he is gone. And I really did and still love him and was going to try to get back together with him or at least get back to being good friends with him but I was too caught up with my own life and issues that I never even called him. Now I know to never hold back and to treat people right but I wish this lesson hadn’t happened through losing a dear friend and love.
To anyone who genuinely reads this and answers me honestly, thank you. Because I know this is like a novel and some people will just put “Too long” or “too much to read”
I forgot to mention, I can’t attend his funeral because its in another state and I can’t afford to fly over there with my child and it was such short notice etc.
wow… thank you guys for the nice answers, you made me feel better thank you all
dating advice
Dec 19 2008